Is the grass greener at the neighbors?

Hej Style Hunter

grass greener at the neighbors

Is the grass greener at the neighbors? nej det tror jeg ikke det er og det tror jeg såmænd heller ikke du tror eller andre for den sags skyld.

grass greener at the neighbors

Men ofte hører jeg de der sure opstød agtige kommentarer om at andre er super heldige eller fornemme, forfinede eller sågar storsnudede fordi de for eksempel bor i et stort hus, eller fordi de har to biler, eller har dyrt designer tøj, har en sødere kone eller noget helt andet.

grass greener at the neighbors

Det vigtige her er ikke hvad det er naboen har,  det er mere det at vi i sagens natur kigger på naboen ude fra. Derfor ser vi også kun et udsnit af “naboens” liv, vi ser altså ikke hele billedet.

grass greener at the neighbors

Det betyder i bund og grund at vi slet ikke ved nok til at kunne vurderer noget som helst. Det kan jo være at netop den nabo som bor i det store dyre hus eller den nabo som har to store dyre biler i indkørslen, resten af tiden spinker og sparer for at have råd til det de nu en gang har prioriteret.

grass greener at the neighbors

Fordi det hele handler om prioritering. Vi er forskellige mennesker og har forskellige værdier, hvilket betyder at vi sætter pris på forskellige ting.

grass greener at the neighbors

Det synes jeg er noget vi skal huske på i stedet for at gå i de der alt for små sko som klemmer forfærdeligt og giver de der sure misundelige opstød.

grass greener at the neighbors

Jeg har prioriteret at bo i et forholdsvis stort hus og derfor har jeg ingen bil. Så når jeg ser andre køre i deres små super lækre nye biler (læs sådan en jeg super gerne ville eje), så tænker jeg altid hvor er det dejligt at personen har netop den lækre bil som de har prioriteret. I stedet for at være sur og misundelig.

grass greener at the neighbors

Du ønskes en skøn aften samtidig med jeg glæder mig til vi ses igen i morgen.

ILYG

/Angel

English Translation

Hello Style Hunter

Is the grass greener at the neighbors? no I do not think it is and I does not think that you or any other for that matter think so.

But often I hear those belching like comments that others are super lucky, or upscale, sophisticated or even snooty because for example, they live in a big house, or because they have two cars, or expensive designer clothes, has a sweeter wife or something entirely different.

The important thing here is not what our neighbor has or don’t have, it’s more the fact that we inherently look at the neighbors from the outside. We therefore only see a sample of “neighbor” life, what we see is not the whole picture.

This means basically that we do not know enough to be able to evaluate anything. It may be that just the neighbors who live in the large house or the neighbor who has two big expensive cars in the driveway, the rest of the time scrimp and save to afford and live their life,  what they have prioritized.

Because it’s all about priorities. We are different people and have different values, which means that we value different things.

I think that is something we should keep in mind instead of walking around in too small shoes which pinch terrible and gives those acidic envious regurgitation.

I have given priority to live in a fairly large house and therefore I have no car. So when I see others driving in their small super delicious new cars (read such as I really want to own), I always think how wonderful it is that the person has just the delicious car as they have prioritized. Instead of being angry and jealous.

Wishing you a wonderful evening while I look forward to see you again tomorrow.

ILYG

/ Angel

 

 

 

 

About AngelQueen

I love fashion and my style cores is feminine. If your style core isn't the feminine don't worry, because the are 6 style cores to choose from. I love to play with my style and I always try to find new ways to put my outfits together. I believe that fashion should be like a game - a fun game where I try new looks and still remains true to my style core. Besides fashion is a breeze, I also think it should be festive, so I give my styleing max speed - in my universe, every day is a celebration of life. If you love fashion, I hope you will love my blog and find inspiration for your fun with the fashion games. I wish you welcome to my blog and wish you a lot of fun. ILYG

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